when your holiday shopping consists of zip-locks and powdered whole milk “because we can’t get that back home”.
when your first order of business in a new town is finding the nearest trail.
when you spend more time reading updates from strangers on backpacking blogs and forums than updates from friends on Facebook.
when the freezer goes out and all you are worried about is the dehydrated veggies and powdered eggs–never mind all the other food your wife had in there!
when you use your water filter to make drinking water when the town water main breaks.
when you put on microspikes to shovel snow off your sidewalk in winter.
when you’re constantly evaluating the best materials to make a campfire. Even in the office!
when you start planning your next hike while unpacking and drying out your gear from a hike that just ended.
your AT thru-hiker wife gives you a thumbs up on your hike.
when you finally become proficient with Excel just to keep track of your gear & the weight!
when you convince 22 beginner hikers it’s fun to hike in the rain !!
when you know over 20 uses for a single roll of duct tape!
when you keep your boots and trekking poles in your car when you go to work “just in case.”
when there are only hikes on your bucket list.
when you know how to do the butt scuff.
when you have a drawer full of bread bags.
when all of your dress chinos are convertible hiking pants.
when you dream of different hikes every night.
when you comb to Web for the perfect baby-carrying backpack years before you have a child.
when you look at your photo album and 99% of the pictures show mountains, nature… and nobody outside your hiking community understands why every single one of those pictures is necessary.
when you come back from the supermarket with assorted cosmetics, toiletries, and food items for the sole purpose of reusing their tiny containers to hold your Body Glide and sunscreen.
when you save your dryer lint to make a firestarter.
when you quit your day job and start a blog about hiking.
when you’ve got your next three years of hikes planned in advance.
when you play hooky from a golf tournament to go hike!
when you dream about your new compass or a new pair of boots.
when you decide that you want to be buried with your hiking boots on!
when checking each other for ticks isn’t just a cute country song!
when your deodorant becomes fire smoke and bug spray.
when you’d rather sleep in a tent than in a hotel room.
when your sleeping pad doubles as a flotation device.
when you track pavement miles and trail miles on your boots.
when you buy your kids their first backpacks before they can walk!
when the real reason you joined a gym is to practice hiking on inclines when you can’t make it outside.
when you read all these things to your wife and she gives you that “How do all these people you’ve never met know you so well?” look.
when you read the rings on the wood coffee table as contour lines.
when you camp out in your backyard in the winter to test how your new tarp and bivy setup will perform in cold weather.
when you carefully consider the weight and packability of all the gear you’re packing for a weekend trip in the car to stay at your in-law’s house.
when you get excited over a package of ExOfficio underwear and wool socks.
when you start carrying your Victorinox classic, Fenix, Mini Bic, and key chain compass/thermometer — every day, all the time.
when you’re drawing Social Security and still sleeping in a tent!
when you start to drool over the package of backpacking meals that just arrived in the mail.
when your food scale isn’t used for food but to weigh all your gear.
when you spend hours online finding new trails…while at work.
when every season is your favorite season to be outside!
when you throw out the cat food and keep the can.
when “hotspots” make you think of blisters and not wifi.
when you do more research on trips during work hours than actual work.
when you decide to sleep on the back porch in -10F (instead of in bed with your spouse) just to test how warm your new sleeping bag is.
when you are ok with not showering for a couple of weeks.
when you spend more time researching your next tent than your next car.
when you can withstand dunking your head in frigid mountain rivers and lakes for a quick rinse (and you even relish the thrilling chill).
when your wife wants to divorce you because you’re always in the mountains and not home.
when you refer to your tent as your summer home.
when you just find a tree if there is a line for the bathroom.
when you string up your new hammock in your backyard, in the dark, and test out your new sleeping system, while the rest of the family laughs at you from the house.
when you can eat peanut butter tortillas in the mountains for 21 straight days without going insane.
when you refer to your wife as a co-leader.
when you get excited about it being a new sock day!
when your clothesline hangs tents as often as it hangs laundry.
when walking 10 miles is considered a ‘breeze’.
when can justify spending $30 on a pair of socks.
when you practice the french technique on your college campus hills.
when your kids start thinking hiking is actually your job.
when Mountain House, Backpacker’s Pantry, and other freeze-dried foods are on your grocery list.
when you’ve weighed your fuel for your stove and know the exact burn time because you’ve timed it in your kitchen.
when you go to bed every night reading the AT Guide.
when you start putting every random condiment on tuna fish.
when you buy a front-loading washer to wash your sleeping bags and quilts.
when you can easily kill an hour in the grocery store inventing “add boiling water ” concoctions that you swear would win on top chef!
when you save every plastic container that comes through your kitchen, organized first by volume and then by recycling symbol.
when you start to enjoy the taste of a stale Cliffbar
when you live and work in Seattle and every clear day in the spring you look at Mt Ranier on your drive home and note how much the snow line has receded.
when you have no stamps, but own a postal scale.
when you meet strangers and start telling them about the local trails.
when your Nalgene Bottle never leaves your side, and a Cliff bar becomes a nutritious meal.
when you bring your digital scale on shopping trips.
when you think that any time, any weather, and any day is a good day to hike.
when you’ve weighed your…underwear.
when you know from practice that a Leatherman Micra and a toothbrush are the only grooming/hygiene tools you need.
when you can’t wait for the ski season to finish so you can get back onto the trails
when you look at food in terms of most calories per oz.
when dieting is about adding pounds not losing them.
when you crack an eyelid in the morning and know the time by how light it is.
when finding spam in those single-serving envelopes excites you.
when you park your car far from the location you wish to go just to savor the walk.
when people ask you to make them a koozie out of reflectix.
when you would rather walk thru an outdoor sporting store than a hardware store.
when you use your headlamp around the house at night instead of turning on a light.
when you buy fresh food in order to dehydrate it and eat it weeks later.
when you can recite the nutritional facts of cliff bars, power bars, etc.
when you get excited because Knorr Rice Sides are on sale at the grocery store.
when you can find any one of 50 different items within 2 seconds in your pack because you have memorized the packing order, but as to the location of the car keys at home… you have no idea you last put them.
when you happily drive for eight hours to the mountains for a six-hour hike.
when most of your books come with maps.
when you start doing the same trails over again in different seasons.
when you spend your free time at work making and testing soda can stoves.
when your entire shoe collection consists of six pairs of hiking boots.
when you fantasize about the multiple backcountry uses for Saran wrap!!
when the weather, terrain, and distance dictate what shoes you wear.
when you have a separate storage Cabinet/Closet/Room dedicated to just Backpacking equipment, food, books, and maps.
when your mom hiked the Himalayas before you were born.
when you find yourself washing your underwear in a ziplock bag and drying it on the back of your pack.
when you sneak gear past the wife without her knowledge or agreement for you to buy it.
when you are making your ultralight stove in the middle of the night and you have to work the next morning.
when alone on a trail, miles from home, you share a conversation with a total stranger as if they were your best friend.
when out for a day hike you wish you’d brought your shelter for an overnighter.
when your wardrobe is determined by weight and layering, not fashion or occasion.
when you can’t wait to convert the kid’s bedroom into a gear room.
when your sweetie goes to an important family event and your mother-in-law asks “Where’s your husband? Hiking again?!”
when you start thinking of ways to spend your REI rebate in January.
when your feet are blistered, your calves are screaming, your shoulders are sore as hell, and you’re having the time of your life!
when you keep a separate drawer of clothes that are saturated with “hiker stink” and unfit for use in public.
when your basket at the grocery store looks like you are preparing for the end of the world.
when your co-workers give you weird looks for clomping around the office in those new boots you’re breaking in.
when you have socks you only use for hiking.
when you have fewer “good” toenails than “bad” ones.
when you buy a drill press solely to make holes in camping gear to lighten it up.
when you have a “Ten Essentials” kit in every pack you own.
when the weather never seems to affect your adventure for the day!
when you prefer a sleeping bag to a bed!
when you practice your “leave-no-trace” protocol at home before a river canyon trip.
when the three-bedroom house you recently moved into is now considered a two-bedroom house with an awesome gear room.
when you end the hike, dirty, tired, hungry but saying “I want to go again!”
when you have a tan line on your calves from your long merino socks.
when you have a collection of backpack pals from several flatlander states that will travel hours just to hit the trail together for a weekend.
when you are buying a dress suit and you ask the salesperson if the fabric is wicking.
when you’re halfway through one hike, and already planning your next one!
when your ideal first date is not in a restaurant but on a trail.
when your home’s only walk-in closet stores your backpacking gear
when you test cooking a four-course dinner on your 3 oz wood burning stove
when any physical activity — like mowing the lawn — is “cross-training” for hiking.
when you suffer withdrawal headaches and nausea if you spend more than two days without getting outside for at least a few hours.
when you experiment with just-add-hot-water recipes at home because you consider Mountain House etc. to be “cheating.”
when your main criterion for a new car is how comfortably you can sleep in it the night before or after a hike.
when you know which kinds of ticks in your part of the country carry which diseases.
when you know the hunting regulations in your part of the country even though you’re not a hunter.
when most of the REI employees know you by name (plus trail name.)
when you think trail maintenance crews are superheroes.
when it takes all your willpower to get out of your own bed to go to work in the morning when your alarm rings, but you awake with the singing birds at dawn raring to get moving when you sleep in a tent.
when you start loitering around the freeze-dried section of the supermarket
when you go to the hiking shop to look for a new pair of work shoes.
when you drive halfway to work and walk the other half to stay fit
when you take the dog for a walk the dog turns back first
when your bedside table is overflowing with maps and other hiking paraphernalia
when your child goes on a school camping trip and has the lightest and greatest gear in the whole camp
when you use your backpack as carry-on luggage.
when you always keep a supply of chocolate, nuts, and other snacks with you “in case you should get lost in the woods”.
when you open all the windows in your bedroom on a winter night and sleep in your bag.
when you constantly look for stealth campsites on day hikes.
when you can’t wait to convert the kid’s bedroom into a “gear room”
when all the cars at the trailhead are Subarus, including yours.
when you have several rolls of clear shelf paper from the Dollar Store for laminating maps and trail directions.
when is hard to find a place to sit, or move easily through the house, because of all the gear spread around drying and airing out.
when the first thing you do with a brand-new pair of waterproof hiking boots is Nik-Wax them. Then you attach rings to the bottom laces so your winter gaiter hooks don’t fray the laces
when your dog has her own backpack, loaded with food and gear she needs for hiking and camping.
when, in polite company, you horrify someone by thoughtlessly blowing your nose by skillfully touching a nostril and blowing out the other instead of using a handkerchief.
when you give “bushwhacking” as the answer to questions about the cause of multiple scabs on your hands, arms, legs, and face!
when you visit a friend who offers you a bedroom and a made bed, and you put your sleeping bag on it (you brought it with you) and crawl in because that’s the only way that you’ll have a good night’s sleep.
when you have more photos of trail junction signposts than you do of your nieces and nephews.
How about you?
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